i may not be a person of many talents but at least im a lesbian and thats what matters
and i m sure u have many other talents
Here’s your reminder that relationships are extremely difficult. the delusion that you are going to find that person who you move into a small apartment with and read books all day and cook naked and cuddle with and play footsie under the table with is a gross romanticization of reality.
You’re going to have great times in a relationship. You’re going to go on fun dates and have great sex and hot make out sessions. But you’re also going to fight. You’re going to be in that weird stage where you like them more than they like you or vice versa and that’s going to hurt. You’re going to have to deal with jealousy and insecurity. You will have to deal with boredom in the relationship. You’re going to be too busy for them or accidentally hurt them. And you are going to have to deal with a few break ups before you find that right one.
A relationship is not going to solve all of your problems. It’s not going to suddenly make you happy. It isn’t easy. They are much harder than being single. Relationships are an unbelievable amount of work and effort and compromise and it’s not always going to be perfect. But the effort you put into it is what make it worth it. Because you fought and worked hard for this person and hopefully they did the same for you. So remember that.
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9- Marie Laveau (September 10, 1801- June 15, 1881).
Voodoo Queen of New Orleans
I was really excited to do Marie Laveau as she has left a somewhat unparalleled legacy in the American imagination. As a woman of color, she broke the boundaries of the perception of magic and the societal position of women. While not practicing witchcraft per se, as a practitioner of Voodoo, etc. she helped to redefine the understanding of women, power, and autonomy. Trying to tease apart the historical accounts of Marie and her daughters from the cultural identity and legacy they’ve left is very challenging, with key pieces of information about their lives being lost to time.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marie_Laveau
